"What, to you, epitomizes femininity?
I love a womanly femininity, a grown up glamour and women that are proud to be women and not trying to recapture their youth. They’re living in the moment, being confident and just enjoying being a female. Young women who are embracing grown up glamour excite me. I think it can be difficult when you’re living in an ageist society being told ‘you should look younger, you should look younger’, that youth is everything. It’s amazing to see young women [in that context] reveling in wanting to be grown women: no pigtails, no bobby socks. Let’s be women, wear womanly things and be proud of our shapes."
#dita von teese
-dita von teese
You’ve said in the past that you find it hard to relate to the modern idea of beauty – for example, what you might see on the cover of Sports Illustrated – how do you maintain a sense of authenticity in a world that rewards a different beauty ideal?
I think it’s important for us to remember that there is no true standard of beauty, apart from the little things that make us healthy. There are certain hallmarks of beauty that we know to be true, but I’m really interested in the kinds that make us different from each other – I really like to embrace and encourage that.
My beauty and glamour idols are usually of the created kin. That’s one of the reasons I love old Hollywood and I love that whole era, because it wasn’t about natural beauty, it was about the creation of beauty and the art of creating glamour. That’s what I preach because I can relate to it and understand it. It’s always given me hope that I could do it too.
When I see someone who’s naturally perfect in every single way, with no makeup and no styling or anything - like the images I see on a Sports Illustrated swim suit cover or when I look at a supermodel – I know I can’t create that. That’s one of the reason I wear red lipstick. I love glamour, I love creating mystique: it’s something really exciting I think any woman achieve.
This is what I love about Dita Von Teese
#dita von teese
"God himself Sir, does not propose to judge a man before his life is over. Why should you and I?"
"the meanest fear is the fear of sentimentality"
Apparently G.K.Chesterton said this one time?
"Oh the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person; having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words but to pour them all out, just as it is, chaff and grain together, knowing that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keeping what is worth keeping, and then, with the breath of kindness blowing the rest away."
"No one really likes wearing a mask. To be known and accepted by God is a liberating and healing experience, and it is the best model for all our human relationships."
#The friendship Factor
"There was a patch of time when I was in my 30s and just started [being offered] a whole string of roles that basically involved saying to a man, “Please don’t go and do that brave thing. Don’t! No, no, no, no, no!” That’s a trope, the stock woman who says, “Don’t do the brave thing.” I said no to all of them. I’m so proud."
#so sick of sexist tropes
You go girl.
"It’s difficult with Russell because he doesn’t like spoilers. When we worked together on the show, we tried not to spoil each other. I’m really serious. When I was doing ‘Silence in the Library,’ [he said], ‘I want you to have River Song pre-figure something about what’s going to happen to Donna, and I said, ‘Don’t tell me what’s going to happen to Donna!’ And I said, ‘What kind of thing is it?’ ‘It’s sad, Steven. It’s very very sad.’ I said, ‘OK OK, I’ll put something sad in.’ [Former production head] Julie Gardner was sitting there saying, ‘You’re working on the same TV show. You can’t behave like this.’"
#russel t davies
'I'm not made to live in society,' I said light-heartedly.
'You're not made to live alone.'
Alone. I could smell the scents of the garden around the mound teeming with ants, and once again I felt the taste of death in my mouth. The sky was bare, the plain deserted; suddenly, my heart was empty.
"…the more myself I become
the less intelligible I seem to others."
Alice Fulton, from Wow Moment (via violentwavesofemotion)
When I was asking my fiance about what wedding dress he’d like to see me in, he siad to just go for it cause ’I want you to look really…YOU!’ and I was like THATISTHESWEETESTTHINGEVER but then drying to explain my ideas to him mother (who’s a wedding dress maker and has offered to make it for free cause she’s awesome!!!!) was so difficult! It seems the more ‘ME’ I am, the harder it is to communicate what I am thinking. :/